Wednesday, May 20, 2009

BAD BESTIE HABITS BUSTED!!!


1.THE GOSSIP QUEEN~
-----Bad behavior: you may think its funny that your best pal accidentally wet her bed last night, but how would you feel it were your deep dar secrets that someone else spilled? Gossiping may seem fun but it can ruin a person's reputation and worse it could shatter your best friends trust in you.
-----Break the habit: As the saying goes "if you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all". Instead concentrate on the good things about your bestie and spread the word around.
2.THE SELFISH SISTAH
-----Bad behavior: The world is not a vacuum--you can't just think about yourself all the time.How about other people's needs. you might be friendless....OUCH!!!
-----Break the habit: If you expect your best bud to listen to you all the time, pay attention if she need to talk about her problems at home. Even if your itching to talk be patient and listen until she's finished tell her some advice when she needs help. In that way you'll be a better friend and she be a better friend to you to.
3.THE Bossy GAL
----Bad behavior: you ask her for pad paper when you have a quiz, to get your coleman when your thirsty, to photocopy her notes when your sick...Wake up your highness, she's not your maid! nobody likes to be pushed around . Later on, your bestie will realize she doesn't deseve this kind of treament from anyone even you.
Brak the habit: Ther's nothing wrong to ask for help when you really need it. But don't depend on them to do everything for you. Be more independent. Wouldn't it be nice if your the on who's helping others, rather than being Damsel in Distress who needs to be rescued by someone 24/7
4. THE FLAKER
---Bad behavior: "Our driver was sick..it was brownout..i have no load..." Excuces,excuses. If you keep flaking out on plans with your best buds . Sooner or later, thev're going to stop inviting you and if y ou keeo it up they might stop believing you.
Break the habit: When you make plans stick to them, When you say your going to do something, do it! Don't flake out on a gimmick just cuz you don't feel like it. If you have a valid excuse make it up to your besties by giving then ice cream the next day.
5.THE COPy CAT
---BAd behavior: your bestie gets a haircut...the next week so do you. She buys a blue top from her fave store, the next day you buy the same in pink. you het matching bracelets. Now you want everything she has. Continue this and your bestie will get annoyed--unless if she want a clone of herself.
Break the habit: Surely you are fabulous enough to be you own person and style your own sport. It's ok to have some matching item with your buds. But it's wav better to have a individuality. No one want to be friends with herself!

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